Today’s question is my husband and I used to talk for hours and now we can’t seem to find anything in common, is this normal for relationships to become boring over time?
I don’t want to say that’s the norm I’m going to tell you that happens a lot unfortunately, and is it okay absolutely not, but why does this happen it’s real simple at the beginning of a relationship what we do is we dive in we want to know everything we can about the person so we ask lots of questions, we listen intently we listen to news stories everything is new it’s exciting and there’s just so much wonderful energy and curiosity that that makes the relationship far more enjoyable than what may happen if, you’re not well aligned with the person.
what I mean by that is when it comes to communication oftentimes people get into relationships that they’re not matched well there are two different kinds of communication styles energetically, one is where people are very figurative and where they’re just a figure speech they mode and the other the person is very structural. if these two people in a relationship with each other they’re going to find they don’t have the same sense of humor they don’t speak the same language and after that curiosity point starts to dwindle away they’ve answered all the questions you’re going to see a difference.
It’s important to know about this difference because you can’t accommodate for it but you need to be aware of it. so if you’re in a place where there’s boredom there’s a couple things going on it could be an energetic mass mismatch but you also need to take a look at yourself because if you’re experiencing boredom there’s also a good chance that you’re pretty bored with your own life and you need to do some work about it.
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